What's crazier?

That the Dodgers clinched a post-season berth against the Giants, or that Ross was there to see it? Lucky jerk.

Thank you for the posts and emails and phone calls. I am so touched and will return to a normal person who responds to friends' outreach shortly.

Grandma

My Grandma passed away this weekend. I have not had much to say yet this year, and I'm not sure this is the right place to say all this. But I find myself trapped on the wrong side of the country and unable to be with my family during this time, so I want to talk to someone. Even if it's the internet.

My Grandma loved chocolate so much, she would bring our family a small bag of M&M's to share amongst the four of us when she came to visit, and then would have another bag she kept hidden in her purse so she had her own stash. I used to call her after exceptionally good chocolate desserts. When my palate refined, she introduced me to See's chocolate covered ginger, which remains one of my favorite indulgences.

My Grandma would make a horrified gasping sound whenever she heard bad grammar. She came with me and my mother to a "Why you should go to Brown" session in LA my senior year of high school. When the alumni speaker (in the midst of explaining that Brown was intellectually superior to other schools no less) leaned over the podium and said, "... and between you and I...." she turned to me making that noise and stage whispered, "Well, you're not going to that school."

My Grandma went to college when she was just 16 years old, and was the women's editor of the college newspaper at the University of Chicago. Until her final years, she remained one of the sharpest people I knew.

My Grandma made the best butter cookies in the whole world. They were irregularly shaped and thin and crumbled all over the place when she mailed them to me at camp (after a letter from me indicated that I missed her almost as much as I missed said cookies), but they were the best.

My Grandma told me I had the most beautiful eyebrows she had ever seen almost every time I saw her.

My Grandma let me and my brother eat asparagus with our fingers at her house. She had this funny way of sometimes shrugging and making a little sound that indicated, "What the hell!" in a more proper way. I still remember her picking up her asparagus with her fingers, Ross and me looking at her in shock, and her making the shrug and the sound. It was like Mardi Gras.

My Grandma took classes on current events and literature in her latet years, and was always reading something interesting. We would talk about books and what her latest class was covering.

My Grandma outlived everyone in her family by at least 20 years. She used to tell us that she had no role model for living as long as she did (she was 92). It was very hard to watch her as this bright and refined woman lost her edge and had to depend on other people. I'm trying to remember as the woman I used to drive up and visit for the weekend when I was in high school because she was so much fun and we were so close.

My Grandma was funny, loving, and brilliant. I think my mother and I both get our edgy sense of humor from her, and I only hope I have a little bit of her wisdom and grace. I miss her very much.

Garciapop-up

Just last night, my father and I were complaining about our Dodgers. And then this happens.

New Roommate

OK, it's been a while. I apologize. It's second year, which means I'm massively overcommitted and my classes started off harder (but more interesting). If someone could go back in time and tell me that organizing the Marketing Conference and head writing the Follies is a bad combination, that'd be great. A few things I've noticed since being back:

1. Despite the fact that I'm the only Julie in my class, professors still use my last name when calling roll on the first day, even when they say more common names without last names.
2. Philly still smells, and the Schuykill is browner than I remember.
3. I have a new pet, and it's pictured above. And it's gross. But apparently, it eats other smaller bugs so I should get over it.

My hobbies these days are shopping for puppies and pricing SF real estate. More on both soon, I hope!

She's a Maine-iac

I'm just back from Maine. Maine is beautiful. It's not that warm, but it sure is pretty. I ate lobster twice a day. I ate many Maine blueberries. Most excitingly, I harvested mussels for the very first time. Mussels are one of my favorite foods, and at my friend's house, you can walk out the backyard straight into the water and pull heaps of them out from these big seaweed formations. But be careful-- if you grab a crab instead, they may pinch you. Trust me on this one.